In the beginning of any relationship, there is a lot of nervousness and anticipation. We say ” does he like me, does he love me or worse is he using me?’ He might like you or he might not, he may just be into you for sex. Either way you will be wondering what side of the hedge are you on. When a man falls in love, its much sweeter and now you can really enjoy him and once you know what signs to look for, you’ll know if you’ve got him hooked.
Before we get into whether or not he’s madly in love with you, let’s consider one thing, if he is how would you know? One thing about guys is they are the masters of hiding their love as they fear it will show their vulnerable side. So lets look at 7 give away signs that lead us to believe he’s madly head over heals with you.
1. HE SPENDS ALL HIS TIME WITH YOU
When a man you love just seems to be around you all the time, there’s a good chance he’s got that feeling. Yeeeaah he loves me!! Let’s face it, he wouldn’t go out of his way to spend every waking hour with someone he finds annoying. You wouldn’t spend that much time with someone if you just wanted them for a booty call either.
2. HE REARRANGES HIS PRIORITIES
If you know he has important stuff going on, but he will cancel , move meetings or yet still makes time for you, he’s showing signs he is in love. When you take priority over work or the hobbies he’s obsessed with or his family or whatever, you’re in the ” i’ve got a man whose in love with me club’ (feels good).
3. HE INCLUDES YOU IN THE DISTANT FUTURE
Any time he makes plans and you’re in them is a great way to tell if he loves you. If the event is months or even years away, even better. It shows that he considers you part of his future. When your man says ” in three years we will go buy that house the you know its on! If not, it usually means he’s wondering if he’ll be with you for that long.
4. HE LOOKS AT YOU DIFFERENTLY
Love struck men can’t hide the signs he is in love. You know that large, tears-eyed stare showing he’s about to cry coz he loves you so much. OK, ok slight exaggeration sometimes it’s not that obvious, but he will look at you differently once he’s convinced himself you’re the one.
5. UNEXPECTED SURPRISES FOR YOU
What happens in his mind the moment he realizes he loves you is, “ i want to show her, i want to buy for her, i want to surprise her” An artistic man will make great art for you. A musician will write a soppy song for you. An athlete will score a goal after staring at you in the stands. For everyone else, it comes as a gift of some kind. It may even come as a trip to Nandos lol but what ever it is a guys will want to do something for you to make you happy.
6. HE STILL LOVES HAVING SEX WITH YOU
Now is not the time to sit back and get lazy and relax that you’ve snagged a love one! Never stop making yourself a better, a sexy person or a loving person. Just because you have a guy making puppy dog eyes at you and he’s all yours doesn’t mean you lay back and just enjoy.Try hard to become even more the girl he fell in love with, be more of what he likes , your man wont be able to get enough of you and one of the main things is that he still finds you attractive and loves sneaking in a long love making session or quickie but remember this is two way traffic, try your best to keep that fire burning.
7. HE TALKS ABOUT HAVING A FAMILY WITH YOU
If he starts talking about this, then girl you may as well start choosing your wedding dress now lol. The one thing guys will not openly talk about is starting a family if he wasn’t serious about you. so if you are already chit chatting about little pit patter feet then girl congrats your man is in love with you!